I've worked in media and public relations for 20 years, and experience has taught me that communication is an essential skill to master in order to be successful in all aspects of one's life. No one person can do many things without the involvement of other human beings; having superior communication skills, then, is a highly enviable quality, and those who manage such a feat serve as role models to the rest of us. Ronald Reagan, "The Great Communicator", exemplified this quality so well that people elected him President.
1. Confidence, such as Reagan had, is one of the essential non-verbal aspects of communication. Confidence can help one talk to others with ease and makes people want to listen to what one has to say. One way to gain confidence is to gain understanding. If one has a firm grasp of what it is one wants to say, one will have fewer reservations about speaking out. Reagan had confidence in what he was saying. He believed in his material and was familiar with it, which gave him the confidence to communicate well and be well received by his audience. Similarly, believing in one's own goals and ideas, communicating them without doubt, will gain them a better reception than an uncertain, mumbled communication would.
2. Reagan's confidently-delivered speeches were crafted to give his American audience hope and a sense of optimism. His 1984 re-election campaign slogan, "It's morning again in America," exemplified his vision of a better future for the country, especially after the traumas (Watergate, Vietnam, etc.) of the sixties and seventies. No one likes hearing bad news, and a positive attitude inspires one's listeners, improving their outlook on the topic and on the speaker. Reagan's use of symbolism- "morning"- is a particularly effective method of communication, as it solidifies an abstract concept in the listener's mind with an image, making Reagan's idea of a positive future more real. In communicating an idea, one would best be served by finding a positive expression for the idea, and finding an evocative symbolic form for the positive idea.
3. The third key to being a great communicator is wit. One must have a sense of humor and be able to tell stories, jokes and anecdotes. Telling a joke will help break the ice and get people interested in what one has to say, enabling a better connection with them. Doug Gamble, one of Reagan's speech writers said, "Unlike Presidents George H.W. Bush and Bill Clinton, whose use of humor often seemed less than heartfelt and somewhat mechanical, and George W. Bush, who is uncomfortable doing it, humor glowed from Reagan's very soul." Reagan expertly used his genuine sense of humor and excellent comedic timing to not only amuse his audience, but also to convey his political points. For example, Reagan illustrated a key principle of his political philosophy with the quip, "The nine most terrifying words in the English language are: 'I'm from the government and I'm here to help.'"
One effective manifestation of wit is the strategic deployment of self- deprecating humor. Making oneself come across as more human and down-to- earth will more readily draw people's interest in one's message. Returning to a Reagan example, the late President enjoyed poking fun at himself, not only for entertainment purposes, but also to disarm his opponents. When Reagan's opponent in the 1984 campaign, Walter Mondale, described Reagan's reign as "government by amnesia," the president reacted, "I thought that remark accusing me of having amnesia was uncalled for. I just wish I could remember who said it." Similarly, Reagan jested about his alleged tendency to fall asleep on the job, "I've given my aides instructions that if trouble breaks out in any of the world's hot spots they should wake me up immediately - even if I'm in a Cabinet meeting." Self-deprecating humor is a very effective communication tool.
With "The Great Communicator" no longer with us and with no role model to replace him, it remains up to each of us to become our own great communicator. Be confident, be witty, be optimistic, and you can interact effectively enough with others to realize your goals.
Michael Levine is the founder of the prominent public relations firm Levine Communications Office, based in Los Angeles. He is the author of 7 Life Lessons from Noah's Ark: How to Survive a Flood in Your Own Life. GuerrillaPR.net is a resource for people that want to get famous in the media, without going broke. http://guerrillapr.net
housekeepers near Buffalo Grove ..Yes?Good!Still, as a business, non-profit or association manager, if you're... Read More
You can SO measure return-on-investment for a public relations program!Try... Read More
There's the old joke about the two buzzards sitting in... Read More
Think carefully! You're a department, division or subsidiary manager for... Read More
A great way to celebrate your achievements and capitalize on... Read More
It happens to business, non-profit and association managers when their... Read More
Would you like to expand the volume of your business?... Read More
Yes indeed! If you are a young person who has... Read More
The Public Relations (PR) industry is responsible for creating and... Read More
I don't know about you but I get really frustrated... Read More
Yup -- it's hot and sticky and you don't feel... Read More
That big story the media pursue each day is what... Read More
When, as a business, non-profit or association manager, you are... Read More
For a business, non-profit or association manager, they could be... Read More
Created properly, an extremely effective marketing tool.It's a great concept,... Read More
In a media interview, always stick to your main points... Read More
To survive in business, you've got to focus your attention... Read More
Even after a nice piece in a national publication, or... Read More
Say, from tactics like special events, brochures and press releases... Read More
When developing a publicity campaign for their business many owners... Read More
Demand that it pull its own weight in your boat... Read More
Your important outside audiences behave in ways that stop you... Read More
You never want to inundate a reporter with information, but... Read More
Personnel mentions in the newspaper and product plugs on radio... Read More
Who wants to face the challenges of a business recovery... Read More
custom home cleaning Mundelein ..I believe this about public relations.People act on their own... Read More
One of the primary tools still used by PR professionals... Read More
There is something newsworthy happening at your organization right now.... Read More
The media live by the calendar. Your story pitch might... Read More
I mean public relations that presumes from the get-go that... Read More
It doesn't matter how cruel the reality programs get, there... Read More
As a business, non-profit or association manager, let the tacticians... Read More
Being part of a trade show gives small business a... Read More
Sorry about my otaku with this issue (otaku = more... Read More
If your reading this, you must be online and most... Read More
Imagine you're in the breakfast cereal business. You make the... Read More
Always ask, "Is now a good time?"Deadlines in journalism are... Read More
When is your best advertisement not an advertisement? When it's... Read More
The power of PassionPassion is an extraordinarily powerful spring. Without... Read More
Public Relations (or P.R.) is a wonderful, yet often overlooked... Read More
UNDER FIREA friend whose organization is often in the media... Read More
Where is there a business, non-profit or association manager who... Read More
The easiest way to meet city council members is to... Read More
How do you make a good relationship with a newspaper... Read More
Sometimes there seems to be no client news worthy of... Read More
They'd hate to admit it, but the media is pretty... Read More
As a business, non-profit or association manager trying to get... Read More
It seems difficult to believe at the dawn of the... Read More
Could be, when unit managers in businesses, non-profits and associations... Read More
With all due respect to all those stereotypical males out... Read More
Public Relations |