Ever had one of those mothers, or grandmothers, who would often say, "Be careful what you ask for?"
I did and always wondered exactly what she meant by that, but now, I know.
Do you realize the power that your words carry with them?
Your words have the power to persuade.
Your words have the power to build someone up or tear someone down.
You words have the power to change your life.
The problem is that most people don't realize the power that their words possess.
Ever said any of these things to or about yourself?
I'm dumb.
I'm stupid.
I'm fat.
I'm broke.
I couldn't possibly win.
I am probably going to be the one that gets fired.
I will more than likely, not be able to do it.
I can't win for losing.
I'm sure you have, at some time, used one of these sentences.
Do you realize that the things we speak about ourselves and the beliefs we place behind them manifest into our lives every day?
Let me tell you a story.
Lisa did really badly on her spelling test in the first grade. It was her first spelling test and she received an F.
She was upset and told herself that she simply could not spell.
It seemed like all the other kids in her class received an A or a B, but she had gotten an F. She must be really bad in spelling.
She started telling herself and anyone who would listen, that she had a hard time learning how to spell words. It seemed like no matter how much she tried; she always failed her spelling tests.
Eventually, Lisa gave up and simply believed that she was not a good speller and would never be a good speller.
Now, Lisa is 25 and she still has a hard time spelling words. When she writes a letter, she has to spell check it two and three times and have someone proof it for her because her spelling is so bad.
Some people will say, "Hey, some people simply aren't good at spelling and Lisa happens to be one of them."
I say that is not true.
Well, it is somewhat true because if these people have the BELIEF that they are bad at spelling then they will be bad at spelling.
But if Lisa started saying to herself, I am a good speller. And if she told this to anyone who cared to listen, and if she started having the belief that she was a good speller, Lisa will become a good speller. It's as simple as that.
It will happen that way for you too.
If there is something that you have difficulty with, the only reason you have difficulty with it is because you have told yourself that you have difficulty with it.
If you want to change anything about yourself, you must start with your words.
ACTION POINT: If you find yourself involved in a negative conversation about yourself, whether it is with someone or by yourself, stop yourself immediately and then rephrase your statement so that it is positive.
For example, "I am a GREAT speller, and I am determined to remain that way." And start to do the things that a great speller would do.
You might find yourself a winner at the local Spelling Bee.
Dawn Fields is a motivational speaker, author and life coach who teaches how to discover your life's purpose and incorporate it into a lucrative career. Visit the web site at http://www.dawnfields.com and sign up for Your Life's Purpose newsletter by sending a blank email to http://www.dawnfields.com with SUBSCRIBE in the subject line. Tune in Thursday at 9 p.m. EST to her live radio broadcast by clicking here http://www.dawnfields.com
efficient cleaning crew Lake Forest ..What is an affirmation? One possible definition is a specific... Read More
Once upon a time, I was a vibrant, youthful teenager...My... Read More
What's my life all about is the question so many... Read More
Ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel so... Read More
"I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious."... Read More
Our thoughts really belong to the collective consciousness of the... Read More
Hey gang; Ok it's time to create some good habits.... Read More
I just heard the story of a man who hired... Read More
No one becomes successful by accident. Motivational speaker Les Brown... Read More
It would be pretty hard to become successful without first... Read More
One thing in life is certain---change. Things never stay the... Read More
Does negative thinking pay? Is it desirable for me to... Read More
"It really works!" "Well, I'll be?!"BJ like so many others... Read More
Water is an important tool for magic rituals in many... Read More
For most of us our lives are a problem which... Read More
What I mean of course is, to appreciate life through... Read More
If you are a parent, it is up to you... Read More
"In life, if you give yourself a concession, you'd take... Read More
In order to learn how to relieve ourselves of self-defeating... Read More
If I say the word "CHANGE" how do you feel?... Read More
"For as a man thinketh in his heart, so is... Read More
In my years as a psychologist, I have come to... Read More
As if choreographed and rehearsed the night before, one lays... Read More
James Allen, who wrote the masterpiece, As a Man Thinketh,... Read More
Good morning I love you.This is a basic exercise, which... Read More
green cleaning service Deerfield ..Spring is here at last! The season brings with it... Read More
Just 2 nights ago my partner and I were watching... Read More
What do you do when things in your life don't... Read More
There was someone I used to work with who, well... Read More
I don't want to say people are basically negative but?..if... Read More
Positive Affirmations are things we say to ourselves that build... Read More
Few people are aware of the thoughts that pass through... Read More
An affirmation is a positive assertion, a solemn declaration, a... Read More
There are many stories of people injuring themselves, and others,... Read More
There are times that we encounter fearful thoughts that can... Read More
Several years, I was listening to a radio talk show... Read More
There is an old joke about a man who is... Read More
If your life is difficult--if it's challenging, exasperating, and vexatious--... Read More
James Allen, who wrote the masterpiece, As a Man Thinketh,... Read More
There is a growing volume of research that shows' staying... Read More
When I was little I was very busy--as I imagine... Read More
It's a fact of life - if you want to... Read More
Most of us start the day like we're trying to... Read More
A rager, or rageaholic, is a person who is addicted... Read More
If you suffer from low self-esteem, it's because you don't... Read More
As we enter this holiday season, and this time of... Read More
It really doesn't matter what your objectives are in this... Read More
"Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude... Read More
With the probable exception of some basic instincts ? or... Read More
"It really works!" "Well, I'll be?!"BJ like so many others... Read More
Positive Attitude Tips |