Our thoughts define who we are. They can make us instantly resourceful or plunge us into the depths of despair. This true story illustrates how thoughts can affect our health and our circumstances.
Many years ago, shortly after Dr. Maxwell Maltz opened his office to start practicing as plastic surgeon, a tall African-American came to see him. Over six feet tall, he towered over the surgeon. He complained about his lip.
After examining his lower lip, he could find nothing wrong with it, and told his patient this.
The patient confessed that it was not his idea, but his girlfriend's. She had told him that she was afraid to be seen with him in public because of his lower lip.
Dr. Maltz thought the man a dignified giant who had become attached to an overly critical woman.
Although there was nothing wrong with his lip, the patient insisted on an operation. Thinking that an outrageous fee would bring the man to his senses, Dr. Maltz said it would cost $1200. The ruse appeared to work. The patient said that he couldn't afford such a fee, thanked the good doctor, and even bowed courteously.
But, the very next day, the man was back, a little black bag in his hand. He dumped its contents on the table, and hundreds and hundreds of bills poured out. Twelve hundred dollars lay on the table; his life's savings.
Dr. Maltz was shocked, and saddened too, because he didn't want to deprive the man such a huge sum of money. He confessed that he had merely quoted that figure to dissuade the money from having the operation. In that case, said the patient, he would find another plastic surgeon who would do it for him. Backed into a corner, Dr. Maltz said that he would do it for a smaller fee on the condition that he tell his lover that he paid $1200 for the operation.
The operation was simple enough. Under local anesthesia, he cut the superfluous tissue from inside the lip, approximated the rims of the wound with extremely fine silk, and bandaged the upper lip for support. The operation only took a half hour.
The patient returned a few times to have the bandages changed. There was no visible scar because all the surgery was done inside the lip.
Although the patient did not look much different, his whole attitude changed. After the stitches were removed, he crushed the doctors hand in a hearty handshake, thanked him profusely, and strode out of the room, a commanding figure.
However, a few weeks later he was back. Dr. Maltz barely recognized him. He had lost a considerable amount of weight, he stooped, his handshake was weak and timorous, and his voice barely audible.
"The bug, sir --the bug!" proclaimed the man.
"What bug?"
"The bug, sir ?the African bug. It's got me, and it's killing me."
Apparently after the last stitches had been removed he had gone and seen his woman. She had asked how much it cost. After he had told her $1200 dollars, as the doctor had recommended, she had flown into a rage and claimed that he had cheated her of the money. She revoked her love and cursed him, promising a swift death.
Deeply troubled, the man had gone to his room. He lay there for four days. A loud rapping on the door forced him to open it. The landlady, concerned about his unusual behavior, had brought a "doctor".
The so-called "doctor" listened to the man's explanation about the curse. He examined the man's lower lip and confirmed that he had indeed been bitten by the African bug. The doctor had tried to drive out the bugs with liquids, pastes, and strong potions, but the bug was too strong.
Dr. Maltz, examined the inside of the lower lip, filled a syringe with Novacain, then, after it had taken effect, removed the scar tissue.
"It's only some scar tissue," he explained to the man, holding it up.
"You mean, there's no bug, no African bug?"
"Never was."
The man suddenly regained his full height. A rich smile spread over his face, his voice boomed out a gravely, courteous thanks, and he bowed. Once again, he strode out of his office.
A few months afterward, Dr. Maltz received a letter from the former patient. Enclosed was a picture of a smiling, handsome giant with a lovely girl beside him. Emboldened by his new appearance and his freedom from the illusion of the African Bug, he had met a new girl, courted her, and married.
Resource Box
Saleem Rana got his Masters degree in psychotherapy from California Lutheran University. His articles on the internet have inspired over ten thousand people from around the world. discover how to create a remarkable life
Copyright 2004 Saleem Rana. Please feel free to pass this article on to your friends, or use it in your ezine or newsletter. It's a shareware article.
kitchen deep cleaning Deerfield ..In order for you to make positive ground daily you... Read More
Changing Negative Thoughts into Positive Thoughts is a key lesson... Read More
Ever had one of those mothers, or grandmothers, who would... Read More
Inevitably in life we will face disappointment from time to... Read More
The most dangerous thing is illusion. ~ Ralph Waldo EmersonFailure... Read More
Never used 'em. Not likely to start now.OK, so I... Read More
I'm a working mother with a preschooler, worrying about Mom... Read More
It really doesn't matter what your objectives are in this... Read More
For the twelve hundred hostages, most especially Timur Kasumova.It's a... Read More
Failure is my favorite subject. For I have spent my... Read More
I just heard the story of a man who hired... Read More
Celebrating is a skill that adults with ADD (Attention Deficit... Read More
When I teach private Yoga sessions, sometimes, I become aware... Read More
What does it take to succeed? How can you move... Read More
Improving this single attitude makes your days fly by. You... Read More
One of the most powerful influences on your attitude and... Read More
Using an opponent's force against them is the fundamental teaching... Read More
Millions struggle through life barely earning enough to survive. Many... Read More
All the problems that any individual has in their lives... Read More
We all know there are ways to become a better... Read More
Everything exists twice. First, in your mind. Later, before you... Read More
In his all-time bestselling record The Strangest Secret, author Earl... Read More
Are you undergoing a major life change? Or merely trying... Read More
I have had many confidence issues in my life, all... Read More
Would you like to be confident in the things you... Read More
interior house cleaning Highland Park ..Some people are full of confidence and able to meet... Read More
WE ARE ALL THINKING ALL OF THE TIME.Can you believe... Read More
The way we use language can have a huge impact... Read More
Imagine the what you could achieve if:You were 100 %... Read More
As I walked my dogs recently on what "should" have... Read More
There are times in all of our lives where our... Read More
Emotions have the tendency to take over our actions and... Read More
If you suffer from low self-esteem, it's because you don't... Read More
"Someone was hurt before you; wronged before you, hungry before... Read More
Whether it's the other kids making fun of you at... Read More
If I say the word "CHANGE" how do you feel?... Read More
I'm sure most of you remember the children's book about... Read More
There are very many methods for achieving improvement to our... Read More
A more positive future, a happier life, a body that's... Read More
It would be pretty hard to become successful without first... Read More
Let's say you're ready to change some aspect of your... Read More
It was the 10th day of rain, and I walked... Read More
Want to improve your personal performance? Positive self-talk can help.Edward... Read More
Our initial reaction when hitting a setback or a "roadblock,... Read More
Good morning I love you.This is a basic exercise, which... Read More
"You can't always get what you want . . ."... Read More
Once upon a time, I was a vibrant, youthful teenager...My... Read More
Often, I've come across individuals who, while in conversation, will... Read More
Gail's StoryGail is a friend of mine and she was... Read More
From Making the Big Move: how to transform relocation into... Read More
Positive Attitude Tips |