We all have a unique way of communicating our story, a way that reflects our life experience. The photographer uses a camera, the artist a brush, and the musician a melody or rhythm. But as the years go by our story changes. We look through a different filter, paint with a different color, sing a different song or feel a different rhythm. This past June family members came from all over the country to celebrate my son's graduation from high school. While sitting on the baseball field with picturesque mountains in the background, memories of parenting flooded my mind. I thought about how rapidly my children had changed and how I had to let go of some of my expectations in order to stay connected with them. As I eagerly awaited the moment of my son's graduation, the valedictorian read an inspiring poem and a few students performed original inspirational songs for the occasion. And then the principal addressed the students and their families. She made reference to Spencer Johnson's classic parable about change, "Who Moved My Cheese." It is a paradox of life that while our children change rapidly, we as adults try to put the brakes on the speed of change. We like to think to some degree we are in control of our life by holding on to what we're used too. "No," Hem quickly responded. "I like it here. It's comfortable. It's what I know. Besides it's dangerous out there." Johnson, Spencer "Who Moved My Cheese?"
During periods of my life I've resisted change, enjoying the moment, not wanting it to end. But eventually it does end and I begin a new phase that is not necessarily what I was hoping for. I've learned through the years that letting go and trusting that the change will be exciting, vibrant and full of new challenges, offers me a new way to look at life? a life in which everyday is new. Haw said, "Sometimes, Hem, things change and they are never the same again. This looks like one of those times. That's life! Life moves on. And so should we." Johnson, Spencer. "Who Moved My Cheese?"
Just look at nature's cycles. Trees bud in the spring and by summer they are full of delicious fruit. In the Autumn, leaves fall to the ground and when winter arrives, the trees are barren and the cycle begins anew. You know for certain there's an intelligence in nature's way of doing things.
What if we looked at life in this way? Since we know there are cycles in our lives, we can prepare for the inevitable next cycle. We know it will be colder in the winter and warmer in the summer, so we dress accordingly. We do not resist the cycles of nature, so let us not resist the cycles of our lives.
Now, here's the good part. If we know there are changes coming we can prepare ourselves by becoming more flexible and adaptable. If we know there are changes coming we can enjoy the moments when things are going well and when they are not, we can look forward to a better future. By embracing change as a way of life, we can look forward to change as opportunity, as adventure, as possibility.
It is essential that we have the tools to prepare us for this new way of thinking. Today there's an increasing awareness of teachings from many different walks of life that encourage us to be more open and flexible. As we look inward and take time for reflection through meditation and prayer we are more accepting of our differences and unique rhythms. And as we continue to expand we can embrace change as a way of life.
Let me know what is changing in your life. I love receiving your many responses and feedback. Thank you and keep them coming. Feel free to pass this letter on to the friends in your circle and let them know about the advantages of being on the journey.
Speak with you soon,
About The Author
Mark Susnow, formerly a trial attorney for 30 years is a coach, speaker, and group facilitator. He's inspired hundreds of people to believe in themselves and to achieve their goals and dreams. 415.453.5016
elite cleaning services Mundelein ..The only thing between you and your desire to be... Read More
Ever feel like giving up? Do you ever feel so... Read More
You want to change your self-care habits and you can't... Read More
If you are a parent, it is up to you... Read More
During a Messenger chat session the other day, I asked... Read More
Bernard always had a problem with money.He was always lacking... Read More
Thinkers know better than to be racist. It's generally understood... Read More
Imagine the what you could achieve if:You were 100 %... Read More
Whether it's the other kids making fun of you at... Read More
Many times when an angry or rageful man comes into... Read More
One of my class fellows was really tensed, when asked... Read More
Every day that I eat EnergyRich? Food, I get almost... Read More
How are you? That's a loaded question, and I'll tell... Read More
Never Quitting Equals Success Most people who achieve fortunes in... Read More
When we were children, we were fearless. We would stick... Read More
You may be facing a type of disappointment, frustration, loss,... Read More
Decades ago, I saw a metaphysical movie that wonderfully illustrates... Read More
There are only two emotions we can experience; love or... Read More
At first glance, it would seem that positive thinking and... Read More
Being a mom can take a toll on your body,... Read More
Visualization is the art of using ones imagination to influence... Read More
"If I have the belief that I can do it,... Read More
"Every prayer - every thought, every statement, every feeling -is... Read More
Look for the positives!Seek them out - those little scary... Read More
Several years, I was listening to a radio talk show... Read More
Airbnb cleaning service Mundelein ..You've been looking for a job for as long as... Read More
In his all-time bestselling record The Strangest Secret, author Earl... Read More
Being the next Carmen Electra or Paris Hilton might or... Read More
So...you might just believe I hide behind computers creating and... Read More
Occasionally people will ask me how I keep a positive... Read More
Recently, a dear friend who has been both a coach... Read More
Everyone of us has the potential to successfully more through... Read More
I'm often asked how it is that I stay so... Read More
For some reason, most people find it easier to think... Read More
The other day one of my "challenging clients" and I... Read More
No one likes rejection. And yet it happens. Here's how... Read More
Q: I seem to beat myself before I ever get... Read More
As if choreographed and rehearsed the night before, one lays... Read More
A more positive future, a happier life, a body that's... Read More
I believe that one of the best ways to stay... Read More
Did you know that our thoughts may be influencing our... Read More
The universe is vast, it's dimensions inconceivable, it's potentialities unimaginable,... Read More
Have you ever considered that you may be subconsciously sabotaging... Read More
When you change your thoughts, you change your life. The... Read More
Uncle Liam was very kind to me again. He gave... Read More
Cheri decided that she wanted to grow an apple tree... Read More
Change your attitude, change your lifeIn my experiences, I've found... Read More
"I have no special talents. I am only passionately curious."... Read More
Many of the books on this page were inspired by... Read More
Do you really believe that there is anything in this... Read More
Positive Attitude Tips |