During one "generation gap" quarrel with his parents young Michael cried, "I want excitement, adventure, money, and beautiful women. I'll never find it here at home, so I'm leaving. Don't try and stop me!" With that he headed toward the door. His father rose and followed close behind. "Didn't you hear what I said? I don't want you to try and stop me." "Who's trying to stop you?" replied his father. "If you wait a minute, I'll go with you."
This is a joke doing its rounds on how the new generation gap has taken shape!
The friction between the young and old exists for ages. The joint family concept had the elders putting the flame off now and then. The younger generation of those days had to meekly submit to the advice of the elders and worked themselves up to success. But of late the nuclear family consists of the parents and maximum two children these days ? the office goers, career oriented fathers and mothers have rarely little time to spend with their children. The children are forced to make independent decisions right or wrong.
This kind of generation gap happens more when the children grow up and the son gets married. Nowadays the parenting concept accepts only parents and not the grandparents. The competitive world makes the parents concentrate more on their children who have to mould their career and settle in life rather than spend time for their old parents who are becoming more and more dependent on their children as they grow older.
The old parents being alive are considered to be a burden. The son is more enthusiastic about giving the best to his children and wants them to compete with their peers. He does not want to lose control over them and certainly feels that there should be a set pattern in bringing up his children.
The grandparents now feel that their son who had been so obedient and submissive now ignores him and does not allow grandchildren to play with them. The son in turn feels that his parents do not know anything of technological advancement and their son in turn should cope up with the latest technologies and not waste time in playing with grandparents. They would prefer their children playing on the computers rather than the grandparents.
Has the new generation gap, which is emerging now, taken a turn to disregard the elders? Or should the older persons step down and adjust to the new developments?
Hpriya Sivan
limousine Ackley .. Lockport Chicago limo O’HareI hear from many parents that their child is stressed... Read More
A fun way to build your child's imaginationWriting is still... Read More
The question I have for you drives right to the... Read More
Does this sound familiar? Have your kids not listened to... Read More
What do you mean average? Not good? Just doing good... Read More
It is extraordinary times that we find ourselves in. Change... Read More
Creating and making special memories with your child is very... Read More
Strattera came out around January of 2003, and is becoming... Read More
As parents, we love our children and want to do... Read More
Late vs. Too LateEvery now and then, I'll hear a... Read More
There are a lot of sophisticated parenting theories and techniques... Read More
Non-compliance is the family therapist's big word for your child... Read More
Speaking as a Michael (a Hebrew name, meaning "Who is... Read More
Chaim Ginott was a schoolteacher whose ideas and observations helped... Read More
What is Happening in the brain of children, teens, and... Read More
Compulsory attendance laws are school authorities' first assault on parental... Read More
Each child carries a unique picture of the self, shaped... Read More
A sure way to double the joys of parenthood is... Read More
What one word best sums up summer fun? Water. I... Read More
Have you ever had this struggle with your teens? Did... Read More
This is the third and final article in a series... Read More
In this form of treatment for attention deficit hyperactivity disorder... Read More
Seven-year old Michael was on a school trip to a... Read More
Finding answers to a child's underachievement is often a difficult... Read More
Parents, when you help your children learn to read, you... Read More
shuttle from O'Hare Alexander ..Most teens go into the work world ill-prepared to manage... Read More
Life is comprised of pieces of time sprinkled with pivotal... Read More
It happens every year. Just when you are settled in... Read More
I hear from many parents that their child is stressed... Read More
As a parent, you probably know that the birthday party... Read More
When it comes to the treatment of Attention Deficit Hyperactivity... Read More
You no longer have to use Ritalin or other stimulants... Read More
Love, love, love. It makes the world go round. It... Read More
Strattera came out around January of 2003, and is becoming... Read More
Most day cares are non-profit organizations that must operate within... Read More
In the movie, Finding Nemo, Nemo's father, Marlyn asks the... Read More
Joey steps away from his time out chair "I won't... Read More
Most of the ADHD kids that are seen in a... Read More
Having been a parent educator and a PBS consultant for... Read More
As parents, we want our children and teens to grow... Read More
There is no doubt that the benefits of being a... Read More
In 1996-97 we were contracted by VAXA International of Tampa,... Read More
Dear friends here we will charge up our mind with... Read More
It's back to school time again. Does the thought of... Read More
It's sometimes difficult to find ways to be involved with... Read More
Something eerily familiar happened in KwaZulu-Natal's Hluhluwe-Umfolozi Park in Africa... Read More
There are several treatment options available to help improve the... Read More
How in the world do you get your child to... Read More
Do your children have a McChildhood? Do they experience the... Read More
We know that you want your little guy or gal... Read More
Parenting |