My son, Dakota is now 7 yrs old. He is so smart for his age. I recently had a conference with his 1st grade teacher and was surprised to find out that he was having a hard time in school. I guess I was surprised because at home he was perfectly fine. She seems to believe that his problem lies with his inability to pay attention in school. She says it isn't that he is disruptive but that he can't seem to keep his attention on one thing for long at a time.
She also warned me that at some point in time someone may suggest he has ADD, and of course with that diagnosis comes medication. I am absolutely against the medicating of kids. I think it is a moral issue as well as a health risk. Kids need to be kids and when teachers can't deal with them as kids they become easier to be dealt with when medicated. I have seem kids on this medication and they are like zombies, they also lose weight, sleep all the time, have fits of rage, and are likely to have health risks because of this.
My child will not be put on medication for being a kid and that is my final thought on that. Do you know that children have died from heart problems as a result of taking meds. for ADD? It is a fact. I think the school systems need to find another way in dealing with children who do not have an attention span of some others. Do you think TV may have something to do with this? Just a thought. I know kids who sit in front of the TV all the time, never go outside, never work for anything, and they seem to be the most interested in the teacher.
My son never watches TV other than at bedtime or if it's raining or snowing. He is always outside, I cant keep him in, and that is how it should be. They need to be entertained and encouraged to be active not slugs. I know a lot of parents are pushed into feeling medication is the best solution, but I disagree strongly and feel there has to be better solutions out there. This teacher was not saying he should be medicated, simply suggesting that when and if some one says he has this condition to be prepared. Could it not be that he is a healthy 7 yr old child that gets bored with repetitive work??
Seems logical to me guess we will see where this goes but I am concerned for the youth of today, I'll leave my doubts and concerns in God's hands and hope for the best. God bless you and your families.
Vaughn Pascal
To Bub: Grateful that you are a healthy and happy kid, continue being so, I love you Thank You God and Jesus for blessing me with such a smart and healthy, happy child
trusted cleaning company Bannockburn ..More and more parents are expressing their concerns about how... Read More
The successful preschool idea behind many successful preschool learning centers... Read More
What is hard for parentsLetting them learn from their mistakes.Trying... Read More
In a single dose of children's television, I was bombarded... Read More
Do you live with an ADD / ADHD child? If... Read More
After giving up my profession to become a wife, a... Read More
When my oldest daughter was born, I walked the floor... Read More
Most parents at some stage are driven to distraction by... Read More
If I had a dollar for every time I persuaded... Read More
It was blisteringly hot last Saturday. As I took that... Read More
Thank you to all of our professional educators who dedicate... Read More
The subject of competition is one that provokes some pretty... Read More
Each child carries a unique picture of the self, shaped... Read More
"Setting the alarm on Sunday mornings is inhuman?..God should know... Read More
Annie easily slipped into becoming the sole caregiver of her... Read More
In seminars I am often asked about pocket-money and whether... Read More
You no longer have to use Ritalin or other stimulants... Read More
I could nearly fund my children's future education if I... Read More
In June, elementary school children across North America cheered as... Read More
Do you have a consistent problem with your child lying... Read More
Throughout the year, many days of celebration are tucked capriciously... Read More
1. You reheated the same cup of coffee three times... Read More
Yesterday my husband Wade took the day off (that's one... Read More
I've often thought that in 6 million years, archaeologists will... Read More
No matter how old your children are, you have an... Read More
luxury cleaning services Lake Forest ..Despite the theory that people have kids because they want... Read More
As a parent, are you at your wits end? Does... Read More
There are moments in a parent's or grandparent's life, when... Read More
My son, Dakota is now 7 yrs old. He is... Read More
Many of us have grown up drinking caffeinated diet sodas... Read More
When my son was 18 (and had finished school), he... Read More
Giving with a happy heart. If you teach a child... Read More
Choosing a baby name is an important job, so make... Read More
Let's be honest! When it comes to parenting, men expect... Read More
Every school year parents and students dutifully trudge through the... Read More
Your child's leadership skills begin at the family dinner table.... Read More
Do any other reality TV junkies remember a show on... Read More
Some public schools try to turn children against their parents... Read More
Everyone needs friends, and, as parents, you and I both... Read More
Recently, a parent came to me, conflicted over whether to... Read More
Maryann is so focused she's blind. She's slipped over the... Read More
Did you know that the school system is only able... Read More
If you had to spend 4 or 5 hours in... Read More
Having a babysitter take care of your kids is sometimes... Read More
Anyone can become a parent; there are no tests or... Read More
Becoming a stepmother can undoubtedly be one of the most... Read More
Well first off, please to don't institute the ? hour... Read More
Here are fourteen spontaneous time-outs, specially designed to help you... Read More
This can be a very complicated issue, so I don't... Read More
Under the "No Child Left Behind Act," public schools whose... Read More
Parenting |