When my oldest daughter was born, I walked the floor night and day, rocking and swaddling, singing and even crying...anything to make my new little miracle stop her endless crying. Well, everyone told me she just had colic and that it would pass. And, alas, pass it did, however I wish that I would have known then what I know now.
There are many theories about the causes of colic. Many believe that it is breastfeeding that causes it. "Either you are eating something that is not suited to her little tummy or you must be feeding her too much.." they will tell you. Well, maybe. Others believe that bottlefed babies are allergic to the formula. "Switch his formula and he will be just fine..." they will tell you. Well, yes that could be it too. Some will say it is gas or an immature nervous system. Maybe. And the list goes on and on.
However, I believe that the answer to solving colic problems is simple. Babies simply "come out" too early and therefore miss out on their "fourth trimester" in the womb. This new world needs a lot of getting used to, and some transitional coping methods are in order. Below are some sure fire ways to soothe a colicky baby and restore them to their comfortable, womb-like environment. Well, they will think so anyway.
1. Swaddle her. Babies up to four months old feel safe and secure when bundled and will calm down. This imitates her cozy womb environment and soothes her cries with a sense of familiarity.
2. Carry him in a sling or carrier close to your body and walk around. The motion will imitate the movements he felt while he was being carried in your womb.
3. Play "white noise" such as the dishwasher, washing machine or even the vacuum cleaner to imitate the sounds she heard while safe and snug in your tummy.
4. If all else fails, go for a car ride. The motion will imitate the frequent movement he felt while in your womb and may calm him, and you, down.
Some of these things will work all of the time and all of these things will work some of the time, but just keep in mind that this will all pass. Enjoy these precious days with your little one because soon you will have to potty train them and you will think back to the good old days...when all you had to worry about was a little colic!
About The Author
This article may be reprinted as long as a link to http://www.themommysite.com is included with it.
Monica Faircloth is a full time mommmy and the owner of http://www.themommysite.com a resource for all mommies.
tidy up service Northbrook ..An address given by Rev. David B. Smith... Read More
In our last issue we posted some of our suggested... Read More
The law of -ing.The law of -ing refers to a... Read More
Everyone needs friends, and, as parents, you and I both... Read More
There is a new stage of development for parents to... Read More
1) It's not my (pot, beer, cigarettes, etc.), I'm just... Read More
Self-reliance and potential are two very important values that I'd... Read More
The public school system in America has become a dismal... Read More
Blink. That's all we did, blink, and summer is ending... Read More
Plus size children and overweight children need patterns and clothing... Read More
Most of our Founding Fathers, including Ben Franklin, Sam Adams,... Read More
Along with eating healthier we need to be more active.... Read More
We want our children to do the right thing, especially... Read More
Home schooling benefits children. As a parent, I feel it... Read More
Why are more people, especially parents not outraged?I call it... Read More
The human brain never actually stops developing. Beginning formation in... Read More
Yesterday my husband Wade took the day off (that's one... Read More
Did you know that many people retire broke?It's true. After... Read More
There are many parenting styles. Yours may be very different... Read More
Studies have shown that:1 out of 4 children were sent... Read More
We were all teens at one time for some many... Read More
If your child or teen has been diagnosed with Attention... Read More
Diagnosing children and teens with ADHD can be a challenge.... Read More
How often do you think of family life as an... Read More
Julia Roberts recently gave birth to twins: Hazel and Phinnaeus.... Read More
reliable home cleaners Buffalo Grove ..Parental example, whether for good or for bad, is undoubtedly... Read More
If you were to ask 100 parents why they think... Read More
In the beginning, having children was just a byproduct of... Read More
One of my first memories of childhood is that of... Read More
Here's the scene of communication with your child: your three-year-old... Read More
If there are any parents reading this who are thinking... Read More
My neighbours' kid impressed me the other day.I was busy... Read More
Child support is defined as that part of your income... Read More
This article on parenting is by a practicing relationship counsellor/therapist,... Read More
Question 1 "How do I get more time to play?"... Read More
Karen, a single never-married thirty-year old attorney has a four-year... Read More
Researchers have estimated that 25-35% of children in the United... Read More
Goal setting is essential for building a successful life. However,... Read More
Cardiovascular endurance is one of the five health-related components of... Read More
Q. How do we decide what our teens should be... Read More
Ask any teacher or adolescent counselor what the most disturbing... Read More
Vouchers, which give tax money to parents to pay for... Read More
There are so many learning labels floating around these days... Read More
Demanding children ? children who have entitlement issues ? seem... Read More
For parents, keeping our kids safe is a constant top... Read More
Dining in a restaurant with kids can be very enervating... Read More
How would you like to have a closer relationship with... Read More
Emotional OverloadMany single parents say they deal with a variety... Read More
Despite the theory that people have kids because they want... Read More
Q. We are getting to the stage with our kids... Read More
Parenting |