There is no doubt that the benefits of being a work-at-home parent outweigh the drawbacks. However, some days can prove to be difficult when your two year-old is determined to climb on top of your filing cabinet while you're trying to participate in an important conference call. Here are ten tips that can help make your life easier, and your little ones happier, while you work at home.
Set up a little desk for your tiny assistant in your home office, close enough for you to keep an eye on him, but far enough away for you to focus on your work.
Tell your child that he is your personal assistant-in-training and emphasize what a big deal it is for him to have this title and his own work area.
Provide your child with some tools similar to those on your desk. Carefully select only the safest items that are virtually indestructible. Your child's active imagination and natural curiosity can easily lead to disaster if he gets his hands on the wrong gadget.
Assign your new assistant with important job responsibilities. Young children love to imitate adults, especially their parents. Depending upon what type of business you operate from home, you can dream up duties that mirror what your child watches you do every day.
One duty that may delight your toddler is opening mail. Give the child junk mail, advertisements or anything else you don't want to read. Provide a little trashcan or place for him to pitch the envelope if that's what you usually do.
Another job that may thrill your child and can potentially occupy him for more than an hour is organizing your out-dated files, old business cards, duplicate copies, rough drafts and any other impertinent papers. The key to this little task is to place files to be organized in a basket or file bin and provide an empty desk drawer or old briefcase for your toddler to transfer the papers to and from - possibly repeatedly. If you can manage to concentrate on your work and coach your new assistant at the same time, you may stimulate their thinking by beginning to count the papers he or she is moving from the basket into the desk drawer.
A must-have for your new little employee is a notepad or notebook similar to the type you use for taking notes, and crayons (if he or she will accept such a "childish" writing implement.) Encourage your child to draw a picture for you and make sure you praise the final product. The more compliments he or she hears from you, the more your child will want to keep creating special drawings for you, or Grandma and Aunt Jeannie and Uncle Timmy etc. Either take a brief time out or make it a routine at the end of the day to hang your child's masterpieces in your office. He will feel like he accomplished something that made you proud. Let your child help you tape his work on the side of your desk or up on the wall. You may be surprised by how intrigued your toddler is with tape!
A chalkboard is an easy, inexpensive addition to your home office that you may never need, but your assistant-in-training will probably use it every day. If you buy the big sidewalk chalk, your toddler will be less likely to decide to taste the bright colored sticks. If he or she does try to take a bite, the chances of choking are reduced with these fat pieces of chalk. Make a production out of adding this new item to your office. Pretend you need it to use it to record your daily business reminders. Your child will be more eager to get his little hands on something he sees you using. One little warning: Although this cheap addition to your office may offer a new outlet for your child's creativity, it will usually lead to the need for a quick bath at the close of the business day!
There are a few items that are actually "toys,'' but may be able to pass for "tools" (similar to the machines you use every day) to be added to your new assistant's desktop. Various toy companies manufacture mini-versions of adult products, like little battery operated computers, designed to teach your child the alphabet or animal sounds; play telephones that ring by themselves and talk back to your child; and musical keyboards that perform tunes automatically and also allow your toddler to make his own melodies. Your toddler may be content to imitate you with toys, like these, that look similar or sound the same as your desktop devices.
Depending upon the location of your office, layout of your house, and your child's level of independence, you may be able to designate duties that require him to leave your office to go find a phone book for you, or to locate that big envelope that came in the mail the other day. You can purposely forget to collect all the items you will need to complete your job that day or you can ask your little assistant to seek out objects that you don't really have to have immediately. Toddlers usually like to look for things, especially when they think they are helping mommy or daddy. Be sure to thank your child and compliment him for being able to find exactly what you wanted!
Resource Box - ? Danielle Hollister (2004) is the Publisher of BellaOnline Quotations Zine - A free newsletter for quote lovers featuring more than 10,000 quotations in dozens of categories like - love, friendship, children, inspiration, success, wisdom, family, life, and many more. Read it online at - http://www.bellaonline.com/articles/art8364.asp
green cleaning service Glencoe ..There are few thoughts as terrifying as the abduction of... Read More
What do you mean average? Not good? Just doing good... Read More
From criticizing a spouse, to claming up about one's own... Read More
Even though the "Stop and Think" movement in ADHD treatment... Read More
Last week in my newsletter, I mentioned that... Read More
Emotional OverloadMany single parents say they deal with a variety... Read More
Your child's first year of school should be a fun... Read More
Ritalin has been shown through the years to be very... Read More
Many parenting books advise against eating out with young children.... Read More
Well first off, please to don't institute the ? hour... Read More
The least flexible character in all of the stories of... Read More
So you're going to become a father. Now is not... Read More
Creating and making special memories with your child is very... Read More
Fizzy sherbet in a paper bag with a strawberry lollipop... Read More
As our children grow, they will be going to schools... Read More
Meningitis is an inflammation of the membranes around the brain... Read More
1. Encourage Questions.Don't answer every question, instead ask what do... Read More
IntroductionChildren are the gifts of God to parents. That young... Read More
Suppose that you rearrange your life to homeschool your child... Read More
Why Me?"We should certainly count our blessings, but we should... Read More
1. Make stronger connections among individuals and, therefore, creates a... Read More
They Spur Members To Grow EmotionallyTatiana Tannenbaum grappled with a... Read More
My name is Duncan and I'm 2 years old. I... Read More
Dexedrine is not prescribed very often for the treatment of... Read More
Little Suzy has really been having a hard time getting... Read More
house cleaning company Bannockburn ..My son, Dakota is now 7 yrs old. He is... Read More
Mother's Day is important for children.This Mother's Day take note... Read More
Child tantrums are a way for children to express their... Read More
Not too long ago my teenage daughter approached me with... Read More
Children think money grows on trees. Maybe not literally, but... Read More
Whether we realize it or not we teach our children... Read More
Many of us have grown up drinking caffeinated diet sodas... Read More
Most of us recognize the continuing escalation of violence around... Read More
The brightly colored plastic mobile dangles lazily overhead in the... Read More
Voices!So many voices crying out for adherence and so many... Read More
Do you have a young child whose weight or eating... Read More
Like anything else in life, there's a method to the... Read More
Sitterphobe "I never have a second to myself," this mother... Read More
You no longer have to use Ritalin or other stimulants... Read More
The First Reason: For one thing, child development experts are... Read More
My son is 6 yrs old. He came home the... Read More
We are all aware of the child obesity epidemic that... Read More
It is human nature to feel competitive and envious toward... Read More
My daughters and I went to the beach several weeks... Read More
Have you ever experienced one of those days when you... Read More
Child care costs are are one of the most expensive... Read More
What is Happening in the brain of children, teens, and... Read More
When your child shows signs of potty training readiness, it's... Read More
The popularity of EEG Biofeedback Training continues to grow both... Read More
Prioritize. Learn to say No. Steal some time for yourself.Don't... Read More
Parenting |