Rule #1 Make Every Bite Count!
Everything your child eats should be nutritious. Children can be picky and inconsistent, so make sure that what they do eat is really good for them. That way if they end up having two bites of potato for dinner, you can be confident that they at least had a great lunch, snack, etc.
"Where's the fun?" you ask. There is not much room in that little tummy, think carefully before filling it with junk. And ask yourself why you are offering chocolate bars or cookies at snack time. It is often the parent/caregiver who is deriving pleasure from seeing children gleefully down a non-nutritious treat. Your child can derive smiles and joy from many other places - it doesn't have to be junk food.
Rule #2 Ban the word "dessert" from your food-vocabulary, and use "treat" carefully.
Make desserts healthy(not just fun) so that things like fruit, nuts, and yogurt become part of the meal, not the reward for finishing it. All good foods can be treats, but we often think of only junk as such - so use the word judiciously.
By isolating foods under these categories, you may negate their nutritional value to your child if you are following Rule #1. Again it is usually a caregiver that delights in serving a "dessert' or "treat" more than the two-year-old who probably wouldn't care otherwise if they've never had triple chocolate cake with whipped cream.
Rule #3 Be persistent, not insistent.
It may take a child a while to warm up to a new food. Just introduce foods gently time and time again until they try it. Never insist that they try something they don't want to, and certainly never insist that they finish their plate. Mealtime should not be battletime. They will eat if they need to.
If you begin a power struggle over meals, you risk it becoming long-term. The point is to get them to eat healthfully, not develop an association between food and control. This is one reason why developing healthy eating habits early on is so important.
Rule # 4 Break the rules our parents taught us.
Many of us can remember moms putting food on our plates and expecting us to eat it - or not. There were few struggles back then because children quickly learned that if they didn't eat what was served to them, they would go hungry. And after a few nights of sitting at the table by themselves until they finished their peas, they learned to eat them without protest.
We now know how destructive this can be. Many adult eating disorders began in childhood, and many sufferers can remember these episodes at the dinner table as a child.
Respecting that your child's tastebuds and moods are as different from yours as is your spouse's, or your neighbour's means learning to break the rules of the "family meal" from time to time.
Let your child have a "creative" meal made up of healthy foods they like, while the rest of the family has their casserole, curry, or stirfry. So long as it is healthy, and doesn't happen every night of the week, letting a child choose their own meals usually won't create the problems our parents thought it would. It will more likely foster a respect for healthy eating rather than an unhealthy association with mealtime.
Rule # 5 Everyone Needs Breakfast
Breakfast is the most important meal of the day for many, if not all, children.
Missing breakfast can set the tone for their entire day and create a downward spiral of too tired to eat vs. too hungry to nap... and so on. What adult doesn't love to have a hungry and tired child on their hands?
Many studies, and many caregivers, will attest to the fact that a good breakfast helps children function better mentally. While most studies lean toward school age children, this fact should be applied to babies and toddlers as well.
Many signs of the stereotypic "terrible-two" year-old is often hunger. Breakfast should contain some protein for lasting energy, helping to offset the midmorning meltdown. Prevention is the key because a miserable child often won't eat, and you won't obtain your objective of feeding them well.
Rule # 6 Learn from your child
Our children know best more often than we give them credit for. Some tummies are really good at letting their owners know when to eat, and how much to eat. Let children learn how to listen to their bodies - many adults have forgotten. Children never fit into one mold, and another person's rules (such as the preceding 5) usually need to be modified to fit your family. Learn to follow your child's rules from time to time... they may surprise you.
Stacelynn Caughlan is a Clinical Nutritionist and Certified Herbalist who specializes in pregnancy, birth and childhood. She is currently the editor of http://www.motherandchildhealth.com an online resource for women looking for information on natural health and healing for themselves and their families.
no-contract cleaning service Mundelein ..I am sure that this list can be jogged and... Read More
What one word best sums up summer fun? Water. I... Read More
This may come as a surprise.But despite all the advances... Read More
What is hard for parentsLetting them learn from their mistakes.Trying... Read More
Keith is now in the fourth grade and he dislikes... Read More
One of the implications of the current trend toward smaller... Read More
It can be said that any man who procreates is... Read More
When planning a child birthday party, just a little bit... Read More
Question 1 "How do I get more time to play?"... Read More
Would you like your child to be the best that... Read More
Here is something that you might want to keep if... Read More
I have been a single mom for almost 20 years.... Read More
Everyone knows that exercise is good for your health. Exercising... Read More
Having worked with parents for the last 35 years and... Read More
Why do some children still do best after divorce and... Read More
Who Can Register A Birth? The child's mother... Read More
Recently, a parent came to me, conflicted over whether to... Read More
O.K. I've heard it a hundred times from my prison... Read More
1. Encourage your babysitter by keeping their favorite foods/snacks on... Read More
People always ask my wife and I: "How did you... Read More
Most of the ADHD kids that are seen in a... Read More
It's that time of year when mom and dad look... Read More
Is there anything wrong with lying, cheating, stealing, shop-lifting, taking... Read More
The cost of being a parent and raising a child... Read More
We're all familiar with the over-indulgent parent. But there's another... Read More
maid service near Glenview ..Frankly, as a single parent of young children, I struggled.... Read More
It's that time of year when mom and dad look... Read More
It was at that time when our marriage was falling... Read More
Once your little boy/girl goes off to school, you may... Read More
Working with adults (as well as children and teens) for... Read More
Question 1 "How do I get more time to play?"... Read More
Raising a pre-teen or teenage daughter (or son) is not... Read More
One of the few decisions you'll make during pregnancy that... Read More
Teachers know that children thrive in an environment with routines,... Read More
Family decision-making is an intriguing phenomenon. Many factors become part... Read More
Once the newness has worn off a little, you will... Read More
Plus size children and overweight children need patterns and clothing... Read More
Bearers of life, wipers of noses, givers of unconditional love... Read More
Home schooling benefits children. As a parent, I feel it... Read More
Back in college, I wrote for a five-day-a-week, award-winning campus... Read More
The subject of competition is one that provokes some pretty... Read More
Dear Sir, It was with some interest that I read... Read More
Child support is defined as that part of your income... Read More
Being consistent when children are less than perfect can make... Read More
When it comes to exams, or indeed any academic work,... Read More
Becoming a stepmother can undoubtedly be one of the most... Read More
I've learned numerous, important lessons on life, motherhood and men... Read More
Children are notoriously bad at drinking enough liquids. They are... Read More
Did you know that cooking with your kids is a... Read More
Did you know there's a game children and parents play... Read More
Parenting |