Mealtimes together deserve an important place in any family. Around the table, family members connect, children learn the art of conversation, and a spirit of peace and thankfulness can flourish.
But work, long commutes, sports, music and religious education can make for hectic evenings. As a result, it's sometimes impossible for the whole family to eat dinner together.
A solution: Snacktime!
You don't have to resign yourself to family members' going their own way all evening. Once everyone is home, a family snack can be a simple and effective way to connect.
Make it easy on yourself. A bowl of popcorn or a store-bought treat works fine. Brownies or cookies quickly made from a mix fill the house with an inviting aroma. During cold weather, our family enjoys sweets with a pot of peppermint or raspberry tea.
Add a bit of structure to the conversation to make sure everyone is included and peace prevails. For example, you might ask each person to name the best thing that happened in their day. Everyone else around the table then responds with a comment and a follow-up question.
You can also ask gently whether anyone has a problem that could use your help. Save disciplinary matters for another time.
If snacktime isn't right for your family, you might enjoy a different strategy. Some families go for an evening walk, gather for prayer or share a read-aloud.
The key is to set aside an pleasant, peaceful time when family members can lovingly connect.
A sweet ending to a busy day.
(c) 2004 Norma Schmidt, Coach, LLC
Norma Schmidt, Coach, LLC, specializes in helping women who are both professionals and parents create balance. She offers teleclasses, workshops and individual and group coaching. Norma publishes "The Balance Point," a free e-zine, every other Friday. Visit http://www.normaschmidt.com
limo prices to midway Crystal Lake west of Randal .. Lockport Chicago limo O’HareDo any other reality TV junkies remember a show on... Read More
Isn't it ironic that a country whose constitution allows for... Read More
Because most teens have not had the experience of getting... Read More
Does your child pout, blame and brood? Does he gripe,... Read More
Are you glad for the chance to put your child... Read More
Paula's last child had just gone off to college and... Read More
When my oldest daughter was born, I walked the floor... Read More
Some years ago when touring the Scottish Highlands, a man... Read More
I WAS AMAZEDI could hardly believe what I was hearing.... Read More
We were all teens at one time for some many... Read More
A common problem many times facing parents is Colic. Estimates... Read More
Here's the scene of communication with your child: your three-year-old... Read More
How are parents to know they are doing the right... Read More
Ask parents what their biggest school year challenge is, and... Read More
Here are some things that you can do to help... Read More
There are many things to like about the television show... Read More
Perhaps I could make a lot of money by founding... Read More
As a parent, you probably know that the birthday party... Read More
Can you draw a straight line? Most adults don't consider... Read More
There's a new trend for party entertainment. It seems as... Read More
Compulsory attendance laws are school authorities' first assault on parental... Read More
A growing body of scientific evidence shows that the way... Read More
I have been a single mom for almost 20 years.... Read More
In a consumer-driven society that broadcasts values you don't approve... Read More
Does the homework battle so typical with your hyperactive or... Read More
taxi o'hare Auburn ..Along with eating healthier we need to be more active.... Read More
It's no joy to be sick. It's even less joy... Read More
When I was pregnant, we knew that we had some... Read More
1. They are leaders as well as parents. They don't... Read More
It is not the divorce but the conflict arising after... Read More
1. Boundaries are necessary for control and safety.All children need... Read More
If you spend any time in the parenting section of... Read More
Here is an easy, inexpensive and fun kid experiment for... Read More
Lets face it becoming a mum is a bit of... Read More
Your Virgo Baby..August 23 - September 22Virgo children are honest... Read More
One of the most prevalent myths of our modern culture... Read More
If you visit search engines you can find several resources... Read More
Children are notoriously bad at drinking enough liquids. They are... Read More
As the kids go back to school, you can go... Read More
School authorities continually claim that they want more parent cooperation... Read More
Assuming there are no serious motor problems present, what can... Read More
Although it's hard to say when the first stuffed dogs... Read More
This can be a very complicated issue, so I don't... Read More
Past experience with federal education programs predicts that the No... Read More
Our back-to-school buying habits do not help kids succeed in... Read More
Ever blown your top to your children, only to regret... Read More
There has been much attention in the media of late... Read More
Mommy (Daddy), Why do those people want to hurt everyone?Last... Read More
Oh Please, Don't Say Maybe!!!!Are you often a participant in... Read More
I recently heard a story that has literally changed the... Read More
Parenting |