It was no contest. Given a choice between a ball and a book, my son would never have cracked a book binding. Giving him educational toys was a lot like giving him medicine. He didn't want any part of either one. Fortunately, things have changed a great deal in the 20-odd years since he was a youngster. Educational toys, just like children's medicines have come a long way. Children's medicines taste good enough that tiny tykes will resist taking them only a little and learning toys have become a lot more enjoyable. For example, today there is great educational software for the family PC.
Now, that isn't to say that you can walk into a toy department or a top quality toy store such as Toys R Us and randomly start slinging items labeled 'educational toy' in your shopping cart. You must take care when selecting educational toys. Fortunately, the 'educational' aspects of the toy can be kept well hidden behind the fun the child derives.
Toys such as jigsaw puzzles, word games, Disney games, word puzzles and other learning toys are great cognitive educational toys. These toys require that the child use his or her imagination. They develop creativity. They make the child think.
These games and educational toys have another, more important, aspect. They are fun. The child has fun while learning to use his or her imagination and reasoning skills. Children learn through play and these toys are the tools of play. They are the tools of learning.
The key is selecting cognitive development skills and educational toys that are appropriate for the child. For example, teaching a three-year-old to read or do multiplication may seem like a cool idea for your little prodigy, but it is much better to make sure the child is having fun reciting the alphabet and counting numbers with the help of interactive Disney toys, books on tape and other such toys. When the learning play is fun, the child will progress at his or her own pace with only minor supervision from you. Frustrating the child by expecting too much, too quickly will actually retard learning.
Jigsaw puzzles are another example of great educational toys. They teach the cognitive skills of learning the relationship between sizes and shapes. They also teach fine motor skills in putting the pieces of the puzzle together.
The second key is to tie educational toys and learning to the child's current interests. These interests change as the child develops. Learning is much more fun if it is associated with something that has already captured the imagination of the child.
Educational toys do not have to be about thinking and learning. The second category of educational toys is those toys that develop physical skills such as coordination and fine motor skills. Babies begin learning coordination with a rattle. Legos are great toys for teaching the fine motor skills required to assemble the blocks.
It is much easier to encourage most youngsters to play with toys that help teach physical skills because stored energy and growing muscles demand stretching and movement. Given the opportunity, what four-year-old won't ride a tricycle miles and miles around the dining room table or up and down the front sidewalk? While riding the trike, the youngster is developing strength and coordination, both of which are important for future development.
The various ball games that children enjoy are important for the same reason. They help the youngster develop strength, agility, speed and coordination. They also go one step further. Because most ball games are team sports, they teach concentration, teamwork, good sportsmanship and strategy. These are all important cognitive and emotional skills that will be necessary for the child to develop into a well-rounded and productive adult. So, Mom, the next time your youngster picks up a ball and begins playing with it, you might look at it as a valuable educational toy.
One of the most important toys in your child's playroom is you. You need to spend some time, enough time, playing with your child to help supervise play with educational toys. You need to spend enough with your child that you can monitor his or her interests, ensure that the educational toys they are playing with are appropriate and encourage them to have fun with those games.
Educational toys are fun as they teach. They are different than schoolbooks and school assignments. Educational toys do not mean tedium and drudgery. Educational toys are designed to teach or develop the child.
This brings up a final point. Another important benefit of parental supervision is the ability to keep track of those toys and games that do little to help develop either your child's cognitive skills or physical skills. There are some games and toys on the market that are so complete that they do all of the work for the child. The child does not have to be creative or exercise growing muscles or developing coordination. In fact, these games can actually be counterproductive by promoting lethargy and laziness.
About the author: Royce Armstrong is a successful freelance writer with a business and banking background who believes consumers should get the best value for their money when shopping for educational software, children's toys and children's books.
same day cleaning service Bannockburn ..Many reasons will cause some people to feel the need... Read More
Not too long ago my teenage daughter approached me with... Read More
Q: Our son has been in honors classes all through... Read More
A sure way to double the joys of parenthood is... Read More
Parents looking for a quick fix usually choose troubled teen... Read More
As a parent, you probably know that the birthday party... Read More
I'll never forget my first lesson in a glider.I'd been... Read More
Did you know that cooking with your kids is a... Read More
Criticism is punitiveOur children judge themselves on the opinions we... Read More
It was at that time when our marriage was falling... Read More
Anyone can splurge on a formal dinner or a pricey... Read More
It is not the divorce but the conflict arising after... Read More
Self esteem in an important quality for all children to... Read More
Every parent wants their child to develop positive character traits.... Read More
One of the biggest milestones in our children's education is... Read More
Minus all meningitis thoughts. The flu symptons were strong. Headache,... Read More
More and more kids these days are diagnosed ADD, ADHD,... Read More
Incest is sexual activity, ranging from fondling to intercourse, between... Read More
Oh yes you have! Suddenly, "Where's Bobby?" You instantly realize... Read More
My cousin boasts five names and I confess that when... Read More
Once upon a time, I thought I had it all.... Read More
Now I know that is not how the song goes,... Read More
In seminars I am often asked about pocket-money and whether... Read More
Did you know that many people retire broke?It's true. After... Read More
Everyone loves penguins. And now, everyone has a chance to... Read More
housekeepers near Deerfield ..When your child shows signs of potty training readiness, it's... Read More
Did you know that the number of twin births have... Read More
Arabella Greatorex, owner of The Natural Nursery, reports on the... Read More
According to a September 2004 study by the RAND Corporation,... Read More
In a single dose of children's television, I was bombarded... Read More
Last night Tom's daughter, Sue, came out of her room... Read More
1. STOP focusing on what you are going to make... Read More
Part of the responsibility of being a father is to... Read More
Baby names are as diverse as the people to whom... Read More
The citizens of the early Roman Republic enjoyed an education... Read More
John Bishop's Goal Setting for Students.comLegacy to Your ChildrenIt's 6:30... Read More
Your child's leadership skills begin at the family dinner table.... Read More
Kitchens are where everything happens. It's not just where meals... Read More
When we consider that the word allowance means, "allowing for,"... Read More
What are we teaching our children about money? Hopefully something!I... Read More
WHEN AN INJURY HAPPENS AT CAMP, HERE'S WHAT YOU NEED... Read More
Children do what feels good to them and follow their... Read More
Parents are in a unique position to "monitor" their children's... Read More
If your child or teen has been diagnosed with Attention... Read More
Plus size children and overweight children need patterns and clothing... Read More
If you are currently homeschooling or considering homeschooling your child,... Read More
Children bombard parents with many challenging behaviours. We are delighted... Read More
As our children grow, they will be going to schools... Read More
Should a parent give a child a tangible reward when... Read More
A common theme over the past 20 years has been... Read More
Parenting |