Every parent wants their child to develop positive character traits. One way to supplement your child's character education is to act as a filter for the movies and television shows your child watches, and to review the books your child reads.
The following categories are modeled after "The Book of Virtues for Young People," an excellent book for children in its own right, written by William Bennett. When developing a curriculum of character education for your child, it's helpful to review each children's book, television show, and movie for both positive and negative examples of each of the ten virtues outlined in "The Book of Virtues for Young People." The stronger the message, the more it will contribute to your child's character education.
Following are some ways in which the virtues can manifest as character traits in children's books, movies, and in television shows:
Self-Discipline: A character discusses his feelings of anger rather than impulsively striking out. Or, a character gets his chores done before he goes out to play.
Compassion: A character understands the pain or suffering of a friend, and steps in to help, even when it means she can't attend the party she was looking forward to.
Responsibility: A character admits it was his baseball that broke the window, and offers to pay for a replacement. Or, a character keeps her promise to babysit her younger sister, even though she'd rather go to the movies with her friends.
Friendship: A character stands up for her friend in front of her peers, even though it's not popular. Or, a character befriends the class bully in an effort to get him to change his ways.
Work: A character approaches her job with a positive attitude, and does her very best even when her boss is being unfair. Or, a character makes up a game to get through an unpleasant task, and takes pride in her work even though it goes unnoticed.
Courage: A character is afraid of the raging waters, but takes the risk and dives in to save her family. Or, a character stands up for what he believes in, even though it's unpopular.
Perseverance: A character continues to strive to make the basketball team, even though he's a foot shorter than the other players. Or, a family works together to keep their home, even though the father has lost his job and the mother is ill.
Honesty: A character admits to himself that he isn't trying his hardest. Or, a character talks to an adult about a friend in trouble, even though the friend will get angry at her.
Loyalty: A character sticks with his losing soccer team in the hope of helping them become better, rather than joining a winning soccer team. Or, a character stays at her friend's side during a serious illness or hardship.
Faith: A character reaches out to God to help him in his time of need.
When evaluating character traits and virtues in kids' books, movies, and television shows, also look at negative behavioral influences. Ideally, these influences will be minimal. Consider, for example:
Violence: Does the character hurt himself, another person, or an animal through his words or actions, and does he act without remorse?
Profanity: Does the character use foul language, sexual language, or take God's name in vain?
Nudity: Does the movie, television show, or book show or describe suggestive styles of dress or partially clothed or nude characters?
Sexual Content: Do the characters engage in implied or overt sexual behavior, or do they engage in aberrant sexual behavior?
Drugs, Alcohol, and Tobacco: Do the characters use or abuse legal or illegal substances?
Scary Elements: Are the scenarios depicted gratuitously frightening?
Negative Behaviors: Does the character show disrespect to his parents? Or, does he neglect his homework? Or, does he frighten other children?
By evaluating both the positive character traits and negative behaviors of movies, television shows, and books, and selecting those that reinforce the values and virtues that are important to you, you'll go far in developing your child's character education.
Brent Sitton is the founder of discoveryjourney.com. DiscoveryJourney has a variety of tools available to parents to help promote a culture of reading in your household. Discovery Journey has compiled discoveryjourney.com of books that not only engage children, but also delight parents. Our children's book reviews identify character trait and child behavior issues in the book to discuss as a family. Each children's book review contains related fun and educational discoveryjourney.com to enjoy as a family, inspiring the passion for learning and reading!
cleaning team near Winnetka ..Hope, excitement and anxiety all wrapped up in fresh haircuts... Read More
The popularity of EEG Biofeedback Training continues to grow both... Read More
"If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think... Read More
Why Is Spending Time with Your Child So Important?For children... Read More
If you're a single parent or a married couple on... Read More
Children are notoriously bad at drinking enough liquids. They are... Read More
Did you know that you are the most important person... Read More
In today's fast-paced society, many families depend on some form... Read More
From the book Spider's Night on the BoomI've only begun... Read More
Many families today are blending members from past relationships. It... Read More
Q: Whenever we tell my daughter "no," she just bugs... Read More
Every parent wants their child to develop positive character traits.... Read More
'I felt great until I walked into the classroom -... Read More
Although many parents are concerned with our children's intelligence quotient... Read More
Pool safety should be on the minds of every parent... Read More
Q. I need your help with a question about my... Read More
Frankly, as a single parent of young children, I struggled.... Read More
If you ever walk through an orphanage, it will be... Read More
So you're going to become a father. Now is not... Read More
Many children enjoy TV, and they can learn from it.... Read More
The Greatest Gifts in Life, which are always created for... Read More
Economist John Kenneth Galbraith has said that more people die... Read More
It used to strike me as odd - but really,... Read More
Strattera came out around January of 2003, and is becoming... Read More
(Isaiah 11:6 KJV) The wolf also shall dwell with the... Read More
family-safe home cleaners Northbrook ..Depending on where you live school will be starting this... Read More
I have been a single mom for almost 20 years.... Read More
I hear from many parents that their child is stressed... Read More
When choosing the perfect jogging stroller, a very important question... Read More
Single parenting has seemingly become an acceptable norm which is... Read More
Here is something that you might want to keep if... Read More
There are many useful jogger stroller accessories out on the... Read More
When my daughter was born, I must admit there was... Read More
Parents of teenagers frequently ask what can be done to... Read More
Is Homework Really That Important?Dear Friends,I no longer teach in... Read More
Past experience with federal education programs predicts that the No... Read More
Gift shops are a kid magnet and often a trip... Read More
On a recent Saturday evening, I noticed a young teen-age... Read More
The purpose of this article is to address some of... Read More
As a parent you will be asked to assist with... Read More
Parents are in a unique position to "monitor" their children's... Read More
I don't know how people raise daughters because I have... Read More
Throughout the year, many days of celebration are tucked capriciously... Read More
When you talk about multiply your child's intelligence, you can't... Read More
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) is the phrase that is... Read More
The popularity of EEG Biofeedback Training continues to grow both... Read More
As a parent there are lots of things that you... Read More
Direct Answers - Column for the week of May 31,... Read More
Dear Sir, It was with some interest that I read... Read More
Arabella Greatorex, owner of The Natural Nursery, reports on the... Read More
Parenting |