Parents of hyperactive children know the "Would you please just settle down?!" phrase well, and likely use it on a regular basis.
There are a number of tips to help parents settle their hyperactive child down. These quick tips and relaxation techniques take the same amount of time as yelling and scolding but produce incredibly different results in hyperactive children.
Quick Calming Tips:
Try quick tips to calm a hyperactive child down during temper outbursts or unusually rowdy days. These calming tips are not novel to adults by any stretch. How many times have you heard "Take a deep breath and count to 10" or "Calgon, take me away." What works for big people works for little people as well._ Deep breathing is one of the simplest ways to calm the body. Teach your children to take deep breaths (in through the nose, out through the mouth) when they begin to feel frustrated and out of control. Parents, you do this too!
_ Draw a warm salt bath or bubble bath to wash away the hyperactive child's stresses of the day.
_ Take your hyperactive child for a walk or send them around the block on their own if they are old enough. Not only does walking burn off excess energy, the repetitive thump, thump, thump of feet hitting pavement brings the mind back into focus.
_ Give your hyperactive child a mini-massage. Touch is very important to Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder children. Massaging their temples, giving a shoulder rub or lightly running your fingers through their hair can calm children quickly.
_ Put together a "Boredom Box" that provides creative outlets for your hyperactive child. Fill this box or plastic storage bin with paint sets, coloring books, crossword puzzles, modeling clay, jewelry making kits and other artistic areas of interest. Hyperactive children bore easily and their fast spinning minds need extra stimulation. In the absence of nothing better to do, hyperactive children will lean on their own devises and you don't want them doing that. Better that they draw than set the cat on fire...
The quick-fix calming techniques work to sooth the hyperactive child after they already became too stressed or active. There are also techniques that parents can teach their hyperactive children to help them get the "stuff" out before it builds up and explodes.
Create a calming home environment:
Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder children have difficulty remaining calm in a hectic environment. Clearing the clutter and taking a "less is more" approach to decorating can reduce the sensory overload on Attention Deficit and hyperactive children.
The Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder child's bedroom especially should be free of clutter. Use plastic bins to organize and store all those precious little plastic treasures (that we adults commonly refer to as "junk") and small toys. Open the curtains to provide natural lighting. Keep posters and wall hangings to a minimum. Paint the child's bedroom in calming muted colors instead of bright primary colors.
If you play music in the house, opt for soft "elevator music" or classical music instead of rock. Try to avoid loud clatters and noises when your Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder child is at home.
Follow a Routine:
All children thrive in homes that provide routines, consistency and structure. Attention Deficit and hyperactive children especially need structure and schedules to feel secure in their surroundings. For these children, a more "military" approach to routines works better. Waking up, eating meals, doing homework, and bed times should all occur at about the same time every day, with few surprises to upset the Attention Deficit or hyperactive child.
A Place to Relax:
If at all possible, find a space in the house to designate as a relaxation space. It does not have to be a large space but it does need to be away from high activity areas. This little corner (or even a portion of a walk-in closet) can have a beanbag chair and a few books, coloring books or other quiet time activities.
Encourage your child to go to this space when they become angry or out of control, but never make this a place of punishment. This special spot in the house is a positive place where they can go to settle down, sort things out or just hang out when they need to be alone.
Journaling:
For the child who is old enough to write, journaling is an excellent way to untangle frazzled minds and get things off their chest. This technique allows hyperactive children to spill their internal stresses outside themselves and onto paper.
Develop a daily habit of having your child write a page or two, depending on their age, about anything that comes to mind. They can write "I hate school, the dog just drooled, the baby's crying is driving me crazy..." - whatever comes to mind. Eventually, they will get to the guts of what is going on inside them. Then rumple or tear the paper up and throw it away.
These private internal thoughts are not for you or anyone else to read, ever. Please respect their privacy and let them know they can write anything down without fear of reprimand.
Taking a mini-vacation with Guided Imagery:
Guided imagery is a powerful relaxation tool for hyperactive children that pulls their focus to positive thoughts, all the while encouraging creativity in your child. You can check out books on this technique at your local library if you want further information on the subject.
Last, but certainly not least, diet:
Some parents find that reducing or eliminating sugar from the diet goes a long way in calming the hyperactive child. If your child is a finicky eater, you will need to supplement the diet to make sure your Attention Deficit or hyperactive child has the fuels needed for his body to function well.
Starting the day out with a healthy breakfast balanced with proteins, fats and carbs is important. An egg sandwich, peanut butter toast and fresh fruit, protein shakes and fresh fruit smoothies are great ways to start the day for Attention Deficit and hyperactive children.
Sugar cereals are quick and convenient but should not be used as a breakfast mainstay. Fruit juices are high in calories and sugar and not recommended for children, especially those with Attention Deficit or hyperactivity. Instead of juice or sodas, get in the habit of offering plain old H2O. With plenty of bottled waters that offer fruit flavors and vitamin enhancements, getting your children hydrated is easier now than ever before.
About The Author
Jeannine Virtue is a freelance journalist and mother of an Attention Deficit son. Visit the Attention Deficit Disorder Help Center at http://www.add-adhd-help-center.com for information about treating Attention Deficit Disorder without the use of Ritalin or other ADHD medications.
http://www.add-adhd-help-center.com
express cleaning service Arlington Heights ..Having been a parent educator and a PBS consultant for... Read More
Reasearch into children's friendships shows that those children who are... Read More
John was a 43 year-old sales manager at a large... Read More
Time management is an organisational concept traditionally associated with adults... Read More
If there are any parents reading this who are thinking... Read More
For the most positive daycare experience for your child, partner... Read More
Q. How do I overcome the 16-year-old who does things... Read More
When my oldest daughter was born, I walked the floor... Read More
The cruel callous remarks made by our offspring can sometimes... Read More
1. STOP focusing on what you are going to make... Read More
Cardiovascular endurance is one of the five health-related components of... Read More
The ADD child exhibits a series of behaviors that are... Read More
Not all parents subscribe to the notion of "tough love,"... Read More
Mealtimes together deserve an important place in any family. Around... Read More
I was in the life insurance sales industry for over... Read More
IntroductionChildren are the gifts of God to parents. That young... Read More
The learning and development of Australian kids is under threat... Read More
Being a single mother is no easy task. I know.... Read More
I never dreamed that I would be in a position... Read More
In the first premise, some films and video tapes which... Read More
"If a kid asks where rain comes from, I think... Read More
There is little doubt that reading, 'riting and 'rithmetic are... Read More
Home schooling benefits children. As a parent, I feel it... Read More
As a step daughter and step grand daughter, I followed... Read More
Many people still think that the game of chess is... Read More
tidy up service Arlington Heights ..Late vs. Too LateEvery now and then, I'll hear a... Read More
When was the last time you and your kids rolled... Read More
Once upon a time there was a beautiful bird whose... Read More
What you say and do about money has a profound... Read More
Have you ever had this struggle with your teens? Did... Read More
Although, not a well publicized statistic, childhood obesity has more... Read More
Learning obedience is an important part of child development. This... Read More
Here is something that you might want to keep if... Read More
Voices have a way of falling into a pattern, not... Read More
Researching career education uncovered the following shocking statistic: The average... Read More
The small, lilac colored hexagonal box, with Winnie the Pooh... Read More
I had my first two children on either side of... Read More
Meningitis is an inflammation of the membranes around the brain... Read More
IntroductionChildren are the gifts of God to parents. That young... Read More
Bearers of life, wipers of noses, givers of unconditional love... Read More
On one of her quarterly visits to see her grandson,... Read More
Most research into children's friendships shows that those children who... Read More
Just the other day, I was talking to some other... Read More
There is nothing pleasant about failure, at least not at... Read More
Night Visits From Your ChildIn the middle of the night... Read More
Some years ago when touring the Scottish Highlands, a man... Read More
As the father of a toddler, I am an expert... Read More
What one word best sums up summer fun? Water. I... Read More
School authorities often complain that classes are too large. They... Read More
The children of Baby Boomers, the Echo Generation, are entering... Read More
Parenting |